Somatic Inquiry Blog

Letting go from the inside out Forgiveness is often misunderstood. Many of us were taught that forgiveness means excusing harm, reconciling before we’re ready, or forcing ourselves to “move on.” When forgiveness is framed this way, it can feel unsafe, premature, or even impossible. From a somatic inquiry  perspective, forgiveness is something very different. Forgiveness is not something you give to another person. It is something you allow within yourself . Forgiveness begins

One of the most liberating perspectives in Somatic Inquiry is this: The past does not exist in the body. It exists as a thought. This is not a denial of trauma or memory. It’s a recognition that the only way the past affects the present is through our ongoing relationship to it . The Past Is Activated Through Attention We cannot directly access the past. We can only access: the thought of it the emotion tied to that thought the bodily response triggered by that emotion This i

Attachment patterns are often described as psychological categories—secure, anxious, avoidant, or disorganized. But at their core, they are nervous system patterns  shaped by early relational experiences. Somatic Inquiry brings attachment out of the mind and into the body, where the original imprinting occurred. How Attachment Lives in Sensation Each style can be felt somatically: Anxious attachment  may show up as activation, tightness, clinginess, urgency, or fear of abando

“We are rarely suffering from our experience. We are suffering from the meaning we give it.” Humans are natural meaning-makers. Every sensation, emotion, interaction, or event becomes interpreted, often instantly and unconsciously. These interpretations shape how we see ourselves, our relationships, and the world. But the meanings we create are not neutral. They often distort reality and amplify suffering. Somatic Inquiry proposes a liberating perspective: The sensation, emot

Most people try to heal themselves through resistance. “I shouldn’t feel this.” “This emotion needs to go away.” “This pain is wrong.” “This part of me shouldn’t exist.” Internal resistance creates internal pressure. Pressure amplifies pain. The system becomes stuck. Somatic Inquiry offers a radically different orientation: Give everything inside you full permission to be exactly as it is. Permission Regulates the Nervous System When a sensation, emotion, or part receives gen

Why Presence Is the First Doorway Into Trauma Healing, Nervous System Repair, and Self-Connection Most people approach healing with an immense amount of effort. They push, analyze, manage, regulate, and try to “figure out” what’s wrong. They read, study, and think their way through their pain. And yet, healing rarely arises from effort. It begins with something much simpler. It begins with noticing . Noticing is the foundation of Somatic Inquiry, an approach that invites the